This paradox — that my kink is simultaneously intimate and asexual — is certainly one of its many aggravating and interesting aspects.

This paradox — that my kink is simultaneously intimate and asexual — is certainly one of its many aggravating and interesting aspects. Possibly I’d been so uncomfortable with my sexuality for such a long time that scenes with two guys, where there wasn’t a apparent stand-in for “me, ” were more straightforward to consume. Possibly […]